The core issue is I don't believe myself to be worthy lovable or whole - Sam - SLAA Speaker

Sam, an addict and code dependent, shares their story, revealing that their core issue is a belief of unworthiness. They discuss their family history of addiction and co-dependency, and how it shaped their understanding of love and masculinity, leading to a period of heavy drug use and sex and love addiction. Despite the ongoing pain of deep healing work, Sam emphasizes the profound gifts of sobriety, step-work, and spirituality, which have brought them self-security, healthy relationships, and the ability to live in service.